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At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a lady.
She started screaming out of fear. With a panic stricken
face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands
face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands
desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach.
Her reaction was contagious,
Her reaction was contagious,
as everyone in her group also got panicky.
The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but ...
The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but ...
it landed on another lady in the group.
Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group
Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group
to continue the drama.
The waiter rushed forward to their rescue.
In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter.
The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behaviour of the
The waiter rushed forward to their rescue.
In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter.
The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behaviour of the
cockroach on his shirt. When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with
his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant.
Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind
Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind
picked up a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach
responsible for their histrionic behavior? If so, then why was the waiter
responsible for their histrionic behavior? If so, then why was the waiter
not disturbed? He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos.
It is not the cockroach, but the inability of the ladies to handle
It is not the cockroach, but the inability of the ladies to handle
the disturbance caused by the cockroach that disturbed the ladies.
I realized that, it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or
I realized that, it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or
my wife that disturbs me, but it's my inability to handle the
disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me.
It's not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my
It's not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my
inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me.
More than the problem, it's my reaction to the problem
More than the problem, it's my reaction to the problem
that creates chaos in my life.
Lessons learnt from the story:
I understood, I should not react in life.
I should always respond.
The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.
Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well thought of,
Lessons learnt from the story:
I understood, I should not react in life.
I should always respond.
The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.
Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well thought of,
just and right to save a situation from going out of hands, to avoid cracks in
relationship, to avoid taking decisions in anger, anxiety, stress or hurry.
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"The Future Belongs To Those Who Believe In The Beauty Of Their Dreams"
Regards, Alireza ♥♥♥
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