ه‍.ش. ۱۳۹۳ اردیبهشت ۱۴, یکشنبه

{تفريح و سرگرمي}, [22581] Good Night & Sweet Dreams....



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At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on  a lady.
 She started screaming out of fear. With a panic stricken
face and trembling voice, 
she started jumping, with both her hands  
desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach.

Her reaction was contagious, 
as everyone in her group also got  panicky.

The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but ...
it landed  on another lady in the group.

Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group 
to continue the  drama.

The waiter rushed forward to their rescue.
In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter.

The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behaviour of  the 
cockroach on his shirt.  When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with 
his fingers and  threw it out of the restaurant.

Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind 
 picked up a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach
responsible for their histrionic behavior?  If so, then why was the waiter 
not disturbed?  He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos.

It is not the cockroach, but the inability of the ladies to handle  
the disturbance caused by the cockroach that disturbed the ladies.

I realized that, it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or  
my wife that disturbs me, but it's my inability to handle the  
disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me.

It's not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my 
 inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that  disturbs me.

More than the problem, it's my reaction to the problem
 that creates  chaos in my life.

Lessons learnt from the story:
I understood, I should not react in life.
I should always respond.
The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.

Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well  thought of,
 just and right to save a situation from going out of  hands, to avoid cracks in 
relationship, to avoid taking decisions in  anger, anxiety, stress or hurry.






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Comments and opinions are welcome:  alizrea@gmail.com

"The Future Belongs To Those Who Believe In The Beauty Of Their Dreams"

Regards,  Alireza ♥♥♥
 
 
 

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